3 Mind-Blowing Facts About Your Husband
And Why You Should Know It
Ok. I get it. Your husband? He is somewhat an enigma. Half the time you have no idea what is going on through his mind. Other times, its a struggle to get him to open up and talk about his feelings. Not to mention, he might be a little sparse on the “romance” department as well. Ok, fine. I hear you. Very sparse on the “romance” department!
However, did you know that he is very much aware of you? More than you even know?
Read more to find out how!
Ask any wife and you will get the same response across the board. Wives are unsure if their husband
- love them
- are really listening to them
- have any idea of what is going on within the home.
Trust me, I’ve been there too! However, as much as a puzzle your husband might be to you, here are three (3) facts you must know when trying to figure him out!
1. He loves you
Men are very intentional with the things they do. Hardly do they do anything without a purpose or gain of a reward. The fact that he took the time to marry you – out of a million other woman out there – in front of everyone is a testament of his love in of itself. Though he might fail to say it a time, or two, (ok let’s be real, or three!) he does! His main purpose is to provide for you and make you happy.
So, trust me when I say this:
2. He is very much aware of what is going on in the home.
Ok, maybe not on the minute details, but he is definitely aware of the finances, bills and food status of the home. If you find him lost in thought or hard to open up, chances are he is wondering how can he both feed you and do the things you want to do (ie: get your hair done, go out with friends, etc.). Many a times, husbands will sacrifice their wants (ie: an expensive “toy”) in order to ensure their wife’s (and children – if applicable) needs are secured first. So, no. Husbands probably won’t know that there is a stack of laundry to do, or even remember that they promised to go out on a dinner party with you – today! :\
However, they know this: there is running water for that laundry stack to be washed and money in the bank to attend that “last minute” dinner party.
3. He does very much listen to you.
Ladies, ask any men you know and they will tell you this: they want to make you happy. In fact, they will go out of their way to ensure that is so: as much as possible. Why? A happy wife is a wife whose chances of nagging is immensely reduced! Plus, there will be peace in the home. Those are the two things men
want crave desire from their wives: less nagging and more peace. So, how can he ensure that? To listen! You will be surprise of how much your husband knows about you, your routine, your desires, etc. Its like they file it into a mental filing cabinet and start working on the process on how to give them to you. However, we women fill up that filing cabinent quicker than the task can be done. Thus, we are left with this erroneous conclusion: he is not listening.
1. Ask your husband “Do you love me?”
Yes, that question might seem odd! However, it will do two things:
- You will receive an odd look
- You will receive a counterback of “Of course I do, why would you even ask that question?”
However, you will know this: a) he loves you and b) now is the time to remind him that he forgot to say “I love you” today!
2. Ask your husband “How are we doing today?”
Asking this question will do two things:
- First, it gives an open floor for him to speak his mind
- Second, it makes speaking his mind a lot easier as it shows you are willing and interested in hearing what he has to say
Sometimes, your husband will have things on his mind that he wants to share with you, but don’t know how. Thus, he stays silent. As wives, we fail to hardly ever check to see how our husband is really doing. I highly recommend that you try sitting him down and ask him, “How is our finances?” “How are you doing today?” “Is there anything I can help you with today?” and see first shock, then interest to speak.
3. Listen to him
Women are really quick to say that men do not listen to them. However, how many wives can say that the truly listen to their husband? For instance, do you know his dreams? Do you know his struggles? Do you know what goals he is trying to accomplish with you two today? If you cannot confidently answer these questions then you have some homework to do!
Lastly, always take the initiative to do and ask in your marriage. Waiting around for it to be done means it will never get done. So, in the words of Nike: Just do it!
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